There's an App for that!

Do you have people in your life who give you gas?

Do you have more haters than motivators?

Do you find yourself wanting to punch random people in the face due to the increasing rate of idiocracy?

If you answered "yes" to the listed questions, THERE'S AN APP FOR THAT!

I take great pride in kicking people out of my life who mean me no good! It is important for us to know that everyone cannot go where our destiny leads. My steps are ordered and I am walking with purpose. If some people happen to get lost in forest or kicked off the path, then they were not meant to complete this journey!

Real talk, I get a kick out of people who try to set me up for failure. If you dig one ditch, you might as well dig two because I am destined for greatness. Don't think that your immature tactics are going to hinder this move because there's an app for that.


I love to tell the story of the little girl who lost a four-year scholarship to any university in the state of Florida because of people. She was awarded the scholarship when she was just in the sixth grade in recognition of her academic excellence. That honor motivated her to turn over a new leaf and turn from her wicked ways. She held onto her scholarship with a firm grip but by the latter end of eight grade that grip began to loosen. Everyone saw her slipping but some were not only looking for her to fail but to lose herself completely! One day in April, one of her best friends approached her in the girls' bathroom where she had been led by another student under false pretenses. The friend had come to address a rumor and she intended to do more than talk. They fought that day in the girls bathroom but the little girl did not take her blows lying down and as a result, her four-year ticket to higher education was snatched from her hand.

After she saw at 14 how nasty people could be, she opened her eyes and began to focus on her star player. She graduated high school without a single behavior notification. She walked across the stage with honors and three scholarships!

You got me!

That little girl was me and now I am a grown a** woman facing the same immature students everywhere I turn. When will people grow up? I've been told they won't, but I still have hope. A good friend of mine once said, "You can't change people. You can only change how you respond to them." I am not afraid to let go of the dead weight and cancerous spirits! I cannot afford to be linked with the wrong people!

I believe that you are blessed by association. Take this time to examine your inner circle. Miley Cyrus said you have to get through all the "yes people" before you can get to the ones who will tell you the truth. If someone is bringing you down or holding you back from your blessing, just know there is an app for that. Facebook calls it "remove friend." Blackberry calls it "delete contact." I call it "can't be bothered."